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The issue of parenting style in the family is one of the issues that need to be strengthened and given focus nowadays in order to overcome the increasing problems and cases of teenagers such as pregnancy outside of marriage, free sex, dumping babies, skipping school, smoking, drugs, rape, prostitution, robbery, theft, bullying, running away from home and murder. This is because one of the factors that contribute to the misbehavior of teenage children is caused by the behavior of parents and family values that are fading and fragile. A few teenagers were found to receive less love, attention, feeling alone, less appreciated and less trusted by their parents. Therefore, this study was conducted to identify the practice of parenting through the spiritual aspects of the family according to the perspective of teenagers. The design of this study is a quantitative survey study through the distribution of questionnaires to 523 respondents among teenagers in Malaysia and Indonesia. The data were analyzed descriptively using SPSS. Expectations of the results of this study can provide input on the parenting style practiced in the family. It can also be used by stakeholders in efforts to promote education and parenting guidance based on the guidance of al-Quran, al-Sunnah and the recommendations of Islamic scholars towards forming quality youth human capital as well as a prosperous family and society.
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Riffin, M. R. A. (2024). Didiklah anak kita mencintai al-Quran [Educate our children to love the Qur'an]. My Metro. https://www.hmetro.com.my/addin/2024/03/1065635/didiklah-anak-kita-mencintai-al-quran
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Zur Raffar, I. N. A., Hamjah, S. H., Hasan, A. D., & Dahalan, N. N. N. (2021). Parenting skills according to the Islamic perspective towards family well-being. Samarah, 5(2), 552–578. https://doi.org/10.22373/sjhk.v5i2.9576
DOI: https://doi.org/10.22373/sjhk.v5i2.9576Zur Raffar, I. N. A., Nik Dahalan, N. N., Mohd Adnan, S. D., Md Nasir, M. F., Jalani, H., & Abdul Kadir, N. A. (2021). Methods of overcoming parental psychological stress in children’s education during the period of Movement Control Order (MCO). International Journal of Academic Research in Business and Social Sciences, 11(9), 57-67. https://doi.org/10.6007/ijarbss/v11-i9/10765
DOI: https://doi.org/10.6007/IJARBSS/v11-i9/10765
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Ahmad, N. L., Amidi, A., & Wahid, H. A. (2018). Pengaruh ibubapa terhadap tingkah laku delinkuen pelajar sekolah menengah (The influence of parent on the delinquent behaviour among secondary school students). Journal of Humanities, Language, Culture and Business (HLCB), 2(8), 85–94. http://www.icohlcb.com/images/Articles/vol_2_No.8/Paper-123-.pdf
Al-Ghazali, A. H. (2000). Ihya’ culum al-din [Reviving the sciences of religion]. Dar al Taqwa li al-Thurath.
Ali Hafizar, M. R., Norida, A., & Siti Nurul Suhada, S. A. K. (2017). Hubungan antara jenis komunikasi dan gaya asuhan ibu bapa terhadap tingkah laku devian remaja: Kajian literatur (Relationship between the type of communication and parenting style towards teen deviant behaviour: A literature review). Journal of Human Capital Development (JHCD), 10(1), 55–68. https://jhcd.utem.edu.my/jhcd/article/view/2661
Denim, M. J. A. M., Pilus, F. A. M., Dass, M. V., Salberi, N. S., & Bahudin, N. H. (2019, April 26). Buang bayi setiap 3 hari [Discharge the baby every 3 days]. Harian Metro. https://www.hmetro.com.my/utama/2019/04/448917/buang-bayi-setiap-3-hari
Institute for Public Health. (2018). National Health and Morbidity Survey (NHMS) 2017: Key Findings from the Adolescent Health and Nutrition Surveys. National Institutes of Health, The Ministry of Health, Malaysia. https://iku.gov.my/nhms-2017
Gloria. (2022). Hasil survei I-NAMHS: Satu dari tiga remaja indonesia memiliki masalah kesehatan mental [I-NAMHS survey results: One in three Indonesian adolescents has a mental health problem]. Universitas Gadjah Mada. https://ugm.ac.id/id/berita/23086-hasil-survei-i-namhs-satu-dari-tiga-remaja-indonesia-memiliki-masalah-kesehatan-mental/
Hamid, A. S. A. (2007). Kemahiran keibubapaan [Discipleship skills]. In Azrina Sobian (Ed.), Keluarga Islam, kemahiran keibubapaan dan cabaran semasa [The Islamic family, parenting skills and current challenges] (pp. 3–8). MPH Group Publishing Sdn. Bhd.
Hamid, N. A., & Mohamed, R. (2024). Masalah kesihatan mental kalangan remaja, cabaran dan penyelesaian [Adolescent mental health problems, challenges and solutions]. Berita RTM. https://berita.rtm.gov.my/laporan-khas/kolumnis/senarai-berita-kolumnis/senarai-artikel/masalah-kesihatan-mental-kalangan-remaja-cabaran-dan-penyelesaian
Hamjah, S. H., Zur Raffar, I. N. A., Rahman, Z. A., & Rasit, R. M. (2020). Applying spiritual aspect of parenting skills to adolescents in the family. Afkar, 22(2), 314–346. https://doi.org/10.22452/afkar.vol22no2.9
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Hasnan, H. A. (2018, October 22). 4,000 remaja bawah 18 tahun hamil setahun [4,000 teenagers under 18 get pregnant a year]. Berita Awani. https://www.astroawani.com/berita-malaysia/4000-remaja-bawah-18-tahun-hamil-setahun-188916
Indra, E. (2023). Pergaulan remaja dan tantangan yang dihadapi [Pergaulan remaja dan tantangan yang dihadapi]. Direktorat Pendidikan Agama Islam. https://pai.kemenag.go.id/artikel/pergaulan-remaja-dan-tantangan-yang-dihadapi-Ogy98
Ismail, M. Y. & Hassan, S. N. S. (2011). Pendekatan Nabawi Dalam Membentuk Remaja Muslim sejati. Jurnal Hadis, 2, 31–46. http://lms.kuis.edu.my/jurnal/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/HADIS_JURNAL_BIL_2_2.pdf
Ismuni, J., Laile, J., Jaafar, S., & Fei, Y. (2012). Hubungan antara perapatan keibubapaan dengan status identiti remaja Melayu [The pelationship between parental attachment and identity statuses among Malay adolescents]. Jurnal Pengajian Melayu, 23(1), 13–19. https://ejournal.um.edu.my/index.php/JPM/article/view/25679
Kadir, F. A. A., Paad, N. S., & Ghapar, M. N. A. (2013). Salah laku remaja dan asas penyelesaiannya menurut perspektif Islam [Adolescent misbehavior and its resolution principles from an Islamic perspective]. International Seminar on Islamic Jurisprudence in Contemporary Society, 129–140. http://eprints.um.edu.my/13070/
Kaharuddin, K., & A. Malek, M. D. (2014). Perkaitan keibubapaan dan keagamaan dengan kesedaran untuk berubah di kalangan remaja pelajar Politeknik Kuching Sarawak [The relationship between fatherhood and religiosity with awareness of change among adolescent students of Kuching Polytechnic, Sarawak]. Seminar Kebangsaan Integriti Keluarga 2014, 1–9.
Khairi, M., Othman, H., Zailani, M., Yusoff, M., Rahim, F. A., Puteh, A., Kasa, M. D., & Roslan, N. (2016). Perspektif ibu bapa terhadap permasalahan dan cabaran dalam pembentukan nilai murni pelajar [Parents' perspectives on problems and challenges in shaping students' pure values]. Sains Humanika, 8(4–2), 9–16. https://doi.org/10.11113/sh.v8n4-2.1052
DOI: https://doi.org/10.11113/sh.v8n4-2.1052Mamat, A., & Abd Rashid, A. (2013). Aplikasi nilai-nilai murni berlandaskan tema Luqman Al-Hakim di dalam Al-Qur’an sebagai asas pendidikan [Application of pure values based on the theme of Luqman Al-Hakim in the Qur'an as a principle of education]. Sosiohumanika: Jurnal Pendidikan Sains Sosial Dan Kemanusiaan, 6(2), 133–142. https://www.journals.mindamas.com/index.php/sosiohumanika/article/view/487/485
Mashlihuddin, Y. (2018). Degradasi moral remaja Indonesia [The moral degradation of Indonesia's youth]. Pusdiklat PSDM UMM. https://p2kk.umm.ac.id/id/pages/detail/artikel/degradasi-moral-remaja-indonesia.html
Mokhtar, N. A. (2019, February 8). Kes buang bayi: Remaja perempuan, bapa, teman lelaki ditahan [Throw out the baby: Teenage girl, father, boyfriend arrested]. Berita Harian Online. https://www.bharian.com.my/berita/kes/2019/02/528666/kes-buang-bayi-remaja-perempuan-bapa-teman-lelaki-ditahan
Ningsih, Y. (2024). 4 kasus kenakalan remaja yang terjadi di tahun 2024 [4 cases of juvenile delinquency that occurred in 2024]. Kompasiana. https://www.kompasiana.com/yuniningsih5897/6665528e34777c60777dcb04/4-kasus-kenakalan-remaja-yang-terjadi-di-tahun-2024
Raffar, I. N. A. Zur, Deraman, S., & Sulaiman, S. (2024). Pembentukan identiti remaja Muslim menerusi kemahiran keibubapaan [Identity formation of Muslim adolescents through motherhood skills]. Penerbit UniMEL.
Rahmat, M. F. (2018, August 5). Usia 13 tahun dah kemaruk seks [13 years old and sexually curious]. Berita Harian Online. https://www.bharian.com.my/berita/kes/2018/08/458280/usia-13-tahun-dah-kemaruk-seks
Razak, Z. A., & Noraini, M. S. (2011). Konteks keluarga dan hubungannya dengan penglibatan ibu bapa dalam pendidikan anak-anak di sekolah menengah [Family context and its relationship with parental involvement in their children’s education in secondary schools]. Jurnal Pendidikan Malaysia, 36(1), 35–44.
Riffin, M. R. A. (2024). Didiklah anak kita mencintai al-Quran [Educate our children to love the Qur'an]. My Metro. https://www.hmetro.com.my/addin/2024/03/1065635/didiklah-anak-kita-mencintai-al-quran
Roslan, H. (2022). Bina kekuatan ruhiyyah [Cultivate the power of the spirit]. My Metro. https://www.hmetro.com.my/addin/2022/08/868815/bina-kekuatan-ruhiyyah
Suharto, D. (2011). Keluarga Qur'ani: Meneladani Ibrahim as. membangun keluarga sukses bahagia [The Qur'anic Family: Modeling Ibrahim as. building a happy successful family]. PT Gramedia Pustaka Utama.
Suwayd, M. N. bin ‘Abd al-H. (2006). Manhaj al-tarbiyyah al-nabawiyyah li al-tifl ma‘a namāzuj taṭbiqiyyah min hayati al-Salaf al-Ṣalih wa aqwal al-ulama’ al-‘ālamī [The prophetic approach to child-raising with practical examples from the lives of the Righteous Predecessors and the sayings of international scholars]. Dār al- Ṭayyibah.
Ulwan, A. N. (2015). Tarbiyatul aulad fi al-Islam [Education of children in Islam]. PTS Publication.
Uwais, A. U. (2022). Pendidikan kanak-kanak berasas metode al-Quran [Kindergarten education based on the Quranic method]. Harakah Daily. https://harakahdaily.net/index.php/2022/10/05/pendidikan-kanak-kanak-berasas-metode-al-quran/
Zur Raffar, I. N. A., Hamjah, S. H., Hasan, A. D., & Dahalan, N. N. N. (2021). Parenting skills according to the Islamic perspective towards family well-being. Samarah, 5(2), 552–578. https://doi.org/10.22373/sjhk.v5i2.9576
DOI: https://doi.org/10.22373/sjhk.v5i2.9576Zur Raffar, I. N. A., Nik Dahalan, N. N., Mohd Adnan, S. D., Md Nasir, M. F., Jalani, H., & Abdul Kadir, N. A. (2021). Methods of overcoming parental psychological stress in children’s education during the period of Movement Control Order (MCO). International Journal of Academic Research in Business and Social Sciences, 11(9), 57-67. https://doi.org/10.6007/ijarbss/v11-i9/10765
DOI: https://doi.org/10.6007/IJARBSS/v11-i9/10765